How to Turn Your Mother's Hair Into a Diamond Safely

How to Turn Your Mother’s Hair Into a Diamond : Complete Guide

by HumanMother

A lock of your mother’s hair can hold a meaning that is impossible to replace.

Unlike ashes, hair is often limited. A saved lock may be the only one that exists, which makes preparation especially important before anything is cut, packaged, or mailed.

The process can be straightforward: find or prepare the lock of hair, confirm the provider’s requirements before cutting anything, choose your preferred diamond characteristics, safely package the material, and send it to the laboratory.

The finished memorial diamond can take several months to complete.

Small lock of hair bound with thread resting beside a pair of scissors on a linen surface

In This Guide

Where Will You Actually Find Your Mother’s Hair?

Most families do not intentionally collect hair for the purpose of creating a memorial diamond. A saved lock is usually something that is discovered years later.

Some common places where families may find a lock of hair include:

  • A folded envelope inside a jewelry box
  • A baby book
  • A saved childhood braid
  • A locket
  • A hairbrush
  • A lock saved after a haircut
  • Hair kept by a funeral home at the family’s request

A clean and identifiable lock is generally easier to submit than loose hair collected from a shared hairbrush.

If the hair comes from a shared brush, it may contain strands from multiple people. It is important to tell the provider where the hair came from when asking whether it can be used.

If your mother is still living, she can personally provide a lock of hair for the memorial diamond process.

Folded paper envelope, a locket and a baby book open on a table, showing where a saved lock is typically kept

What Should You Decide Before You Touch the Scissors?

Before cutting anything, decide what type of diamond you want.

1. Diamond Carat Size

The selected carat size can affect the growth process, timeline, and cost.

Sending more hair does not automatically create a larger diamond. The amount of hair submitted and the size of the finished diamond are not the same thing.

Before cutting a lock, confirm the provider’s requirements for the specific diamond size you want.

Learn how to choose a carat size for a memorial diamond.

2. Diamond Color

Memorial diamonds may be available in different colors, depending on the laboratory process and selected options.

Your mother’s natural hair color does not necessarily determine the color of the finished diamond.

Choose your preferred diamond characteristics first, then confirm how much material is required before preparing the lock of hair.

Learn what color a diamond made from your mother’s hair can be.

How Do You Know You Have Enough Hair?

Palm-sized lock of hair held in an open hand beside a coin for scale

This is one of the most important steps in the entire process.

If a lock of hair is the only one available, there may not be another opportunity to collect more. For that reason, confirm the provider’s minimum material requirement before cutting anything.

Requirements can vary depending on:

  • The provider
  • The selected diamond size
  • Whether one or multiple diamonds are being created
  • The laboratory process

A small lock of hair may be enough in some cases, but the exact requirement should always come directly from the provider.

Before cutting the hair, ask:

Is This Amount Enough for the Diamond Size I Want?

If you are unsure, ask the provider how they recommend confirming the quantity.

What Happens to Unused Hair?

Ask whether unused material is returned and how it is handled.

What Happens if the Diamond-Growing Process Needs to Be Repeated?

Understanding how the remaining material is managed can help you make a more informed decision.

If the available amount is limited, choosing a smaller diamond may be safer than cutting more hair than necessary.

Learn how much hair you may need for a mother memorial diamond.

How Should You Cut and Handle a Lock of Hair?

Section of hair bound at one end with sewing thread just above where it will be cut

If a lock needs to be cut, preparation can help keep the strands together.

Some practical handling steps include:

  • Cut rather than pull the hair
  • Use clean, sharp scissors
  • Keep the lock together
  • Bind one end before cutting
  • Keep the hair dry
  • Store the lock carefully before mailing

Binding the hair before cutting can help prevent individual strands from scattering.

The source material should also be kept clean and protected until the provider gives instructions for submission.

Treated hair, including gray or colored hair, may require provider-specific confirmation before submission.

Read the complete guide to a mother hair diamond.

How Do You Package and Mail Hair Safely?

Hair generally does not have the same shipping restrictions as cremated remains.

However, the biggest risk is physical damage to the package.

A soft envelope can potentially tear or become damaged during sorting. If the hair escapes, recovering it may be impossible.

Step 1: Place the Hair in an Inner Envelope

Keep the lock together and place it inside a small envelope or container.

Step 2: Seal the Inner Packaging

Secure the inner envelope so the hair cannot easily escape.

Step 3: Use a Rigid Outer Mailer

A rigid mailer can provide more protection than a standard paper envelope.

Step 4: Add Identification

Include the person’s name and any reference number provided by the company.

Step 5: Use a Trackable Shipping Service

Tracking can help you confirm when the package has been delivered.

Always confirm the provider’s current packaging and mailing requirements before sending the hair.

Sealed paper envelope being placed inside a rigid cardboard mailer with a tracking label attached

What Happens While You Wait?

After the hair has been received and documented, the laboratory process begins.

The general process can involve:

1. Material Intake

The submitted hair is received and recorded according to the laboratory’s procedures.

2. Carbon Recovery

The material goes through processing designed to recover usable carbon.

3. Carbon Purification

The recovered carbon is purified and prepared for the diamond-growing process.

4. Graphite Preparation

The prepared carbon can be converted into a suitable form for diamond growth.

5. Diamond Growth

The material is used during controlled laboratory diamond growth.

6. Cutting and Polishing

The rough diamond crystal is shaped into the selected cut.

7. Grading and Final Preparation

The finished stone can be evaluated based on characteristics such as:

  • Cut
  • Color
  • Clarity
  • Carat

The memorial diamond process can take approximately 6 to 10 months, depending on the selected diamond and laboratory requirements.

Learn how a memorial diamond is made from your mother’s hair.

Loose memorial diamond beside an empty pendant setting on a jeweler's cloth

What Happens When the Diamond Arrives?

The finished memorial diamond may arrive as a loose stone.

Depending on the provider, documentation may accompany the diamond, such as information about its characteristics and the memorial process.

After receiving the stone, you can decide how you would like to preserve or wear it.

Popular options include:

  • A memorial diamond pendant
  • A ring
  • A necklace
  • A custom jewelry setting
  • Resetting an existing family jewelry piece

There is no need to rush this decision. The setting can be selected after you have seen the finished diamond and decided what feels most meaningful.

Explore memorial diamond settings and jewelry ideas for a mother.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need to send the hair with the roots attached?

A cleanly cut lock may be suitable for the memorial diamond process. Always confirm the specific material requirements with your provider before submission.

How Much Hair Should I Cut?

Confirm the provider’s minimum requirement for your selected diamond before cutting anything. If the lock is the only available hair, it is especially important to confirm the amount first.

Can I Mail the Hair in a Regular Envelope?

A more protective option, such as a sealed inner envelope placed inside a rigid mailer, can reduce the risk of the hair scattering if the outer package is damaged.

What if the Only Hair I Have Is From Her Hairbrush?

Tell the provider before submitting it. A shared hairbrush may contain hair from more than one person, so a clean and identifiable lock is generally preferable.

What if My Mother Is Still Living?

A living mother can provide a lock of hair herself. This can create a meaningful memorial or keepsake diamond without cremation being involved.

Can I Create More Than One Diamond?

This depends on the amount of available material and the provider’s requirements. Confirm the requirements before deciding how many diamonds you would like to create.

Before You Send the Hair

Before mailing anything, confirm these important details:

  • ✓ The provider accepts hair as a source material.
  • ✓ You have selected the diamond size and other preferences.
  • ✓ You know the minimum amount of hair required.
  • ✓ You have enough material before cutting.
  • ✓ The lock is safely stored and clearly identified.
  • ✓ You understand the provider’s packaging instructions.
  • ✓ You are using an appropriate tracked shipping service.

Taking these steps before sending the hair can help prevent unnecessary mistakes.

Turn Your Mother’s Hair Into a Lasting Memorial Diamond

A lock of your mother’s hair can be a deeply personal keepsake.

Before cutting or sending it, take time to confirm the requirements, understand the process, and decide what type of diamond you would like to create.

The most important step is often the first one:

Ask questions before you cut anything.

A memorial diamond can become a lasting symbol of connection and remembrance, preserving the meaning of a treasured lock of hair in a form that can be kept and passed down.

Ready to Create a Memorial Diamond From Your Mother’s Hair?

If you have a saved lock of your mother’s hair and are considering a memorial diamond, start by understanding whether the available material is suitable for the diamond you have in mind.

Contact us to discuss your available hair, preferred diamond size, and memorial diamond options.

How to Turn Your Mother's Ashes and Hair Into a Diamond

How to Turn Your Mother’s Ashes and Hair Into a Diamond

by HumanMother
Two small labeled containers side by side — a sealed ash container and a paper envelope holding a lock of hair — ready for shipping to a memorial diamond lab

The confusion is nearly always the same. You have two different things a portion of your mother’s ashes and a lock of her hairand they do not follow the same rules.

To send both for a memorial diamond, first confirm that your provider accepts a combined submission. Then decide whether you want one diamond created from both materials or two separate diamonds. Each material should be packed in its own sealed and labeled container before being sent together in one shipment.

Because cremated ashes are included in the package, the shipping requirements for cremated remains generally apply to the entire shipment.

That is often the part families find confusing and one of the most important details to understand before sending anything.

Will Your Provider Accept Your Mother’s Ashes and Hair Together?

Ask this question before measuring or preparing either material.

Not every memorial diamond provider combines ashes and hair into one diamond. Some providers may create a diamond using only one source material, while others may offer separate diamonds.

Before beginning, ask three important questions:

  1. Can you combine ashes and hair into one diamond-growing process?
  2. If not, what options are available one material per diamond or two separate diamonds?
  3. Does sending both materials affect the price, required quantity, or timeline?

Before making any decisions, review the wider list of questions worth asking first.

Do You Want One Blended Diamond or Two Separate Diamonds?

This decision should be made before packing because it may affect the amount of material required and the overall cost.

One Memorial Diamond

A combined memorial diamond may represent both materials in one meaningful keepsake. Depending on the provider’s process, the ashes and hair may be processed separately before being used in the diamond-growing process.

Two Separate Memorial Diamonds

Some families may prefer two diamonds, with one created from ashes and another created from hair. This can also be meaningful when siblings or family members want separate memorial pieces.

Before dividing anything, make sure you understand how much of each material is required. Learn how much ash and hair you may need for a mother memorial diamond.

Families may choose to send both materials because each one carries personal meaning. A lock of hair and cremated remains can represent different memories of the same person, making the decision deeply personal.

How Do You Pack Ashes and Hair for Shipping?

Rigid sealed container of cremated remains and a tied lock of hair in a paper envelope, each labeled, packed in one outer shipping box

The most important rule is simple: keep the materials separate.

Do not mix ashes and hair together at home. Each material should be placed in its own sealed and clearly labeled container.

A practical packing checklist includes:

  • Ashes: Place the required amount in a sealed inner container according to your provider’s instructions.
  • Hair: Place a clean lock of hair in a separate envelope or sealed container.
  • Label both containers: Include identification details requested by your provider.
  • Include required paperwork: This may include submission forms or other documentation requested by the memorial diamond company.

Keeping the materials separate helps ensure they can be properly identified and processed according to the provider’s procedures.

Why Should Ashes and Hair Be Sent Together?

When both materials are intended for the same memorial diamond process, sending them together can help keep the submission organized from the beginning.

One shipment means the provider receives both materials together and can document them as part of the same submission.

If the ashes are sent first and the hair arrives weeks later, the provider may need to handle them as separate arrivals. This can create unnecessary confusion and may affect how the materials are processed.

Before shipping anything, make sure you have both materials ready.

If you are still looking for a lock of your mother’s hair, such as one kept in a memory box, locket, or family keepsake, it may be better to wait until you have everything before beginning the submission process.

What Are the Shipping Rules for Ashes and Hair?

Official USPS Priority Mail Express Cremated Remains box packed with a sealed ash container and a separate labeled envelope of hair

Ashes and hair are treated differently when it comes to shipping.

Hair generally does not have the same shipping restrictions as cremated remains. Cremated ashes, however, may be subject to specific carrier and packaging requirements.

For families in the United States, the presence of cremated remains in the package means the shipment should follow the applicable requirements for cremated remains.

Before shipping, always confirm the current requirements directly with your carrier and memorial diamond provider.

You should confirm:

  • Which shipping service should be used
  • What packaging is required
  • Whether a specific shipping box is required
  • How the inner container should be sealed
  • Whether additional documentation is needed
  • How the package should be tracked

Carrier requirements can change, so it is important to confirm the current rules before sending the package.

You can also learn more about whether turning ashes into a diamond is legal throughout the United States.

What Happens Once the Lab Has Both Materials?

Finished champagne-toned memorial diamond grown from carbon extracted from a mother's cremated ashes and hair

Once your mother’s ashes and hair arrive at the laboratory, the provider should confirm that the materials have been received.

The exact process can vary between providers, but memorial diamond creation may involve several stages.

The materials may be processed separately to prepare usable carbon. The prepared material is then used as part of the specialized diamond-growing process.

The general process may include:

  1. Receiving and documenting the submitted materials.
  2. Preparing and purifying usable carbon.
  3. Preparing the material for diamond growth.
  4. Growing the diamond crystal using specialized laboratory equipment.
  5. Cutting and polishing the finished diamond.
  6. Preparing documentation associated with the finished stone.

For a closer look at the process, read how a memorial diamond is made from your mother’s ashes and hair.

The overall timeline can depend on factors such as the requested diamond size, color, and the provider’s specific process.

For a broader overview of your options, see the complete guide to a mother ashes and hair diamond.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I Mix My Mother’s Ashes and Hair Together Before Sending Them?

No. It is generally better to keep ashes and hair in separate, sealed, and labeled containers.

The provider may need to handle and prepare each material differently. Follow the exact instructions provided before shipping anything.

What If I Find a Lock of Her Hair After I Have Already Sent the Ashes?

Contact your provider before sending the hair separately.

Depending on the stage of the process, it may still be possible to discuss your options. The provider can explain whether the hair can be added to the existing submission or whether it would need to be handled separately.

Does Sending Both Ashes and Hair Create a More Meaningful Diamond?

The meaning of a memorial diamond is personal.

Some families choose to send both materials because ashes and hair represent different memories of their loved one. Others may choose only one material.

The decision should be based on what feels most meaningful to you and your family.

Can I Ship Cremated Remains With UPS or FedEx?

Carrier policies and shipping regulations can change. Before shipping cremated remains, confirm the current requirements directly with the carrier and follow your memorial diamond provider’s instructions.

Do not assume that ordinary package shipping services can be used for cremated remains.

How Much Ash and Hair Do I Need to Send?

The amount required can vary depending on the provider and whether you are creating one diamond or multiple diamonds.

Before measuring or dividing anything, ask your provider for the exact quantity required for your chosen diamond.

You can also read our guide on how much ash and hair you need for a mother memorial diamond.

Do I Have to Send Ashes If I Have Hair?

No. Some memorial diamonds can be created using hair alone, while others can be created using cremated ashes.

If you only have a lock of hair, explore how to turn your mother’s hair into a diamond.

If you prefer to use cremated remains only, read how to turn your mother’s ashes into a diamond.

Before You Send Anything

Before shipping your mother’s ashes and hair, take a moment to confirm every detail.

Make sure the provider accepts both materials, understand whether they can be used for one diamond or separate diamonds, confirm the required quantities, and carefully follow the shipping instructions provided.

Keep the materials separate, clearly labeled, and securely packaged according to the instructions you receive.

Turning your mother’s ashes and hair into a memorial diamond is a deeply personal decision. Taking the time to understand the process before sending anything can help you move forward with greater confidence and create a memorial that feels meaningful to you and your family.

Memorial diamond created from a mother's ashes and hair with two sparkling diamonds, ashes, and a lock of hair

Mother Ashes and Hair Diamond: The Complete Guide

by HumanMother

Mother Ashes and Hair Diamond: The Complete Guide

Most families arrive at this holding two different things and assuming they have to pick one. You don’t.

A mother ashes and hair diamond is a genuine lab-grown diamond created using carbon extracted from both her cremated remains and a lock of her hair. The two materials are purified separately and then prepared for the diamond-growth process.

Hair contains roughly 50% carbon by weight, while cremated ashes contain a much smaller amount of usable carbon. Combining both materials can therefore increase the amount of personal carbon recovered from the submission.

There is also another option that many families may not realize they have: instead of creating one blended stone, it may be possible to create two separate diamonds one associated with ashes and one associated with hair.

Small portion of cremated ashes in a dish beside a tied lock of hair and a pale champagne memorial diamond on a linen surface

In This Guide

Why Would You Submit Both Her Ashes and Her Hair?

The two materials can carry different meanings.

Ashes are what many families associate with a loved one’s physical remains. They are what is returned after cremation and what families often preserve, scatter, or keep in an urn.

Hair is different. A lock of hair can remain deeply personal because it is visibly connected to the person you remember. From a technical perspective, hair also contains a relatively high proportion of carbon.

Hair is roughly half carbon by weight, while cremated remains are primarily mineral material, with usable carbon generally representing a much smaller proportion.

For some families, submitting both materials simply feels meaningful. It allows both the cremated remains and a physical lock of hair to be represented in the process.

You do not necessarily have to choose between them.

If you are still deciding which material is right for your situation, you may also want to explore an ashes-only memorial diamond, a hair-only memorial diamond, or compare ashes and hair as starting materials.

What Does Combining Ashes and Hair Actually Change About the Diamond?

side-by-side comparison of a scoop of cremated ashes and a small lock of hair, labeled with their carbon content by weight

The most important change is the amount of personal carbon that may be recovered from the submitted materials.

Hair contains considerably more carbon by weight than cremated ashes. Adding hair to an ashes submission can therefore increase the total amount of carbon recovered from the person being memorialized.

Source MaterialApproximate Carbon ContentWhat It Contributes
Cremated AshesApproximately 0.5–4%A smaller amount of usable personal carbon among mineral-rich material
HairApproximately 50%A relatively carbon-rich source
Ashes and Hair CombinedHigher total personal carbon than ashes aloneCarbon from both submitted materials can contribute to the growth feedstock

However, combining ashes and hair does not mean that the finished diamond is made entirely or exclusively from the submitted material.

Diamond growth requires a sufficient amount of carbon feedstock. Personal carbon recovered from ashes, hair, or both may be combined with supplemental laboratory carbon during the growth process.

The most accurate way to understand a combined memorial diamond is that carbon recovered from both her ashes and her hair contributes to the material used to create the stone.

Should You Grow One Blended Stone or Two Separate Diamonds?

Having both ashes and hair creates a decision that families using only one material do not have.

You may consider creating one memorial diamond using both materials, or creating two separate diamonds associated with the two different source materials.

two lab-grown memorial diamonds of similar size side by side on a pale gray surface, one grown from ashes and one from hair

Why Some Families Choose Two Diamonds

  • Two family members can each have a stone. One diamond can represent the ashes and another can represent the hair.
  • One to wear and one to keep. A family may choose to set one diamond into jewelry while preserving another stone separately.
  • Different meanings for different pieces. One stone may be intended as a formal family heirloom while another feels more personal.
  • Separate keepsakes. Two diamonds can provide more flexibility for sharing a memorial between family members.

Why Some Families Choose One Diamond

One stone can also feel simpler.

There is one diamond size, one shape, one color, one setting, and one finished piece to preserve or pass down.

Creating two separate diamonds may also involve two separate production processes, cutting stages, and grading requirements.

The right choice depends less on chemistry and more on what makes sense for your family.

What If You Only Have a Very Small Amount of One of Them?

This is a common situation.

A Little Hair and Plenty of Ashes

You may only have a few strands from a brush, comb, keepsake, or baby book.

Because hair contains a relatively high percentage of carbon by weight, even a small amount may still contribute carbon alongside the ashes. Always tell the provider exactly how much material you have before cutting or sending it.

A Little Ash and Plenty of Hair

Perhaps most of the ashes were scattered or interred years ago, but a small portion was kept.

A combined submission may still be worth discussing with a memorial diamond provider because both materials can be evaluated individually.

Almost None of One Material

If you have only a tiny amount of one material, ask the provider honestly what practical role it can play in the process.

Even when the contribution is primarily symbolic, that may still be meaningful to the family. The important thing is understanding the difference between a symbolic contribution and a significant material contribution.

How Does a Laboratory Handle Two Different Materials?

Two sealed sample vessels being loaded into a high-temperature oxygen-free purification furnace in a laboratory

Ashes and hair are very different materials, so they require different purification processes.

They are handled separately during the early stages.

Step 1: Processing the Ashes

Cremated remains contain substantial mineral material, including calcium phosphate and other components associated with bone.

The laboratory processes the material under controlled conditions to isolate usable carbon.

Step 2: Processing the Hair

Hair is primarily composed of keratin and contains a relatively high amount of carbon.

The hair is processed separately to remove non-carbon components and other possible residues.

Step 3: Carbon Purification

The goal of both processes is highly purified carbon suitable for later preparation and diamond growth.

The purified material is then prepared for the next stage of the process.

Step 4: Graphitization

The carbon can be converted into graphite at extremely high temperatures, approximately 2,500–2,700°C.

Step 5: Diamond Growth

The prepared carbon feedstock is placed into a diamond-growth environment together with a small diamond seed.

In an HPHT, or High Pressure High Temperature, process, the environment may reach approximately:

  • 6–8 GPa of pressure
  • 1,400–2,500°C of temperature

Under these controlled conditions, carbon atoms gradually attach to the diamond seed and form a growing crystal.

The growth process can take weeks to months depending on the target diamond.

Step 6: Cutting and Polishing

The diamond crystal that comes out of the growth process is a rough diamond.

A specialist examines the crystal and determines how it can best be cut and polished.

The finished diamond can then be evaluated according to characteristics such as:

  • Cut
  • Color
  • Clarity
  • Carat Weight

Does Sending More Material Create a Bigger Diamond?

No. Sending more ashes or more hair does not automatically create a larger diamond.

The final carat weight depends primarily on the selected diamond size and the controlled crystal-growth process.

Growth time and laboratory conditions play a much larger role in determining the size of the finished stone than simply increasing the amount of submitted material.

Does Submitting Both Change the Timeline or Cost?

For one combined memorial diamond, submitting two types of material may not dramatically change the overall timeline.

The complete process can take several months because diamond crystal growth, cutting, polishing, and certification require time.

A typical industry timeline can be approximately 6 to 10 months, with larger diamonds or specialized requirements potentially taking longer.

If you choose to create two separate diamonds, each stone may follow its own production timeline.

What Determines the Cost?

The cost of a memorial diamond is generally influenced more by the characteristics of the finished diamond than by simply submitting one or two source materials.

Factors may include:

  • Carat weight
  • Diamond color
  • Cut and shape
  • Clarity characteristics
  • Certification or grading
  • Whether one diamond or multiple diamonds are created

If two separate diamonds are produced, expect the production requirements to be more comparable to creating two individual stones rather than one.

Memorial diamond set in a ring worn on a hand, showing the everyday scale of the stone

One Mother’s Story Can Become One Stone or Two

If you have both your mother’s ashes and a lock of her hair, you have more options than you may initially realize.

You may choose one memorial diamond representing both materials. Or, depending on what is available and what your family wants, you may consider separate stones.

There is no universally better choice.

For some families, one stone feels complete. For others, two diamonds make sharing, wearing, or preserving the memorial easier.

The best first step is understanding what materials you have and discussing the possibilities before sending anything irreplaceable.

Frequently Asked Questions About Mother Ashes and Hair Diamonds

Does adding hair make the diamond more genuinely her than ashes alone?

Adding hair can increase the amount of personal carbon recovered from the submitted materials because hair contains significantly more carbon by weight than cremated ashes. However, supplemental laboratory carbon may still be required during diamond growth.

Can we grow one diamond from her ashes and another from her hair?

Creating separate memorial diamonds associated with different source materials may be possible. Discuss the available options with the provider before sending either material.

Are the ashes and hair mixed together from the beginning?

No. Ashes and hair have very different compositions and require different purification processes. The materials can be processed separately before being prepared for diamond growth.

Does submitting both materials cost more?

For one combined stone, cost is generally influenced primarily by the characteristics of the finished diamond. Creating two separate diamonds requires separate production processes and may cost closer to producing two individual stones.

What if we only have a few strands of her hair?

A small amount of hair may still be useful because hair contains a relatively high percentage of carbon. Tell the provider exactly how much you have before cutting or sending it.

Will a combined diamond look different from an ashes-only or hair-only diamond?

Not necessarily. The appearance of a diamond is primarily influenced by the conditions used during growth, as well as factors such as trace elements, cutting, and polishing.

Does more hair or more ashes create a larger diamond?

No. Diamond size depends primarily on the selected carat weight and the controlled crystal-growth process, not simply on the quantity of material submitted.

How long does it take to create a memorial diamond?

The complete process can take several months. Industry timelines are commonly around 6 to 10 months, depending on the desired diamond size, growth process, cutting, and certification.

Is a memorial diamond a real diamond?

A properly grown memorial diamond is a laboratory-grown diamond crystal. Like other lab-grown diamonds, it can be evaluated according to characteristics including cut, color, clarity, and carat weight.

Where to Start

If you have both your mother’s ashes and a lock of her hair, start by understanding how much of each material you have.

Then consider what feels right for your family: one diamond representing both materials, or separate memorial diamonds.

Before sending anything irreplaceable, ask about material requirements, handling procedures, chain of custody, expected timeline, available diamond sizes, and the documentation provided with the finished stone.

A conversation is often a better first step than making an immediate purchase decision.